Life has a funny way of reveling everyones true intention whether it be good or bad. For those who have experienced the bad, it can be really frustrating as to why it always happen to you. I recently started looking at my life like this, and ask myself these questions. Why am I experiencing this and what must I learn from it to move on.
Now I’ve been like this before. I was always an eye for an eye type of person. But that’s not the godly way of living life at all. You see life is all a learning experience and we must step back and observe our own actions in order to fully learn how to control ourselves.
In terms of finding others true intentions towards you, if you’ve known them long enough observe how they speak. If what they say does not show up in their actions, they are definitely looking out for themselves and not others. Especially if they try to make it seem like what ever scheme the come up with is your idea.
The best way to deal with people like this is don’t. They play victim all the time, so boss up and get out, hold your ground and limit conversation. They only hear what they want and do as they please to suit them.
