It’s important to be mindful on how you present yourself to the world, what you say and how you speak to others. All of these actions can influence how others view you as a person.
From personal experience, you must learn how to read people by their presence. Especially when what they do and say are conflicting. When that happens the persons true identity comes out when they don’t get their way. Talk about spoiled. Pay attention to their mannerisms physically and verbally. When they try to attack you verbally, they will use dominance in their voice, which is strange since they usually don’t speak that way. They will try to make you feel afraid or what you’re doing is wrong, guilt trip you. When in reality they’re the ones doing wrong.
I’m not sure if anyone else reading this has ever experienced something like this, but have you ever gotten tongue tied when dealing with someone like this, or is that just me. But back to the point always be mindful of how you present yourself to the world. Always be authentically you, look out for others not just yourself, you’re not the only one going through something. I’m sure its hard to keep up with so many personas, and keeping up with the gossip daily. Try your best to always leave a good lasting impression on others, stop being messy.