The past two weeks was a tough week for me because I got to experience how ugly people can truly get. Personally it made me step back to analyze the situation that I got myself in and I want out. Mentally ugly people are no fun to be around, they always find an issue with something or someone and drag that problem out as far as they can. For me that is super draining, and I’m learning moving forward on how to separate myself from it.
First step is being very picky about who and where you spend majority of your time. Step two stay out of gossip, to behest I really do not care about ether side of the story. Step three be careful who you share information with, you never know who it will get back to. Trust me those three steps will save you a lot of headache.
As someone who tries to be as genuine as possible and support people, the way both parties acted was disturbing and I never want to experience that again. If you ever get yourself stuck between mentally ugly people, stay calm drink tea and pray and keep all comments and suggestions to yourself.
